For some couples, picking music is very difficult, and for some, it is very easy. I have personally put the music lists in the link above together and update it regularly. That doesn’t necessarily mean that I have your “special song” here, but I hope I do! This is a great place to find great music, but there are other excellent places too. I recommend listening to the music channels on TV and listening to Live365 and Pandora streaming online. AOL also has a good wedding music radio station online. The online radio stations are great because all you have to do is enter a song or artist and they will automatically play music similar to what you entered. Just be sure to take notes!
Good luck with your search, and let us know if you need any help!